Srimad Bhagavatam mentions this incident, and doesn't mention rape whatsoever. Relatively it is exciting and play in between them. I do Observe Shri Ayappa could be the son of Shri Shiva and Shri Mohini, and so she is probably going his spiritual wife which is why he caught her hair https://baglamukhi-shabar-mantra50481.is-blog.com/43023727/5-simple-techniques-for-mantra